Your Man Won’t Tell You Everything!

You might be close with your man, share all sorts of intimate things and confide in each other but you should know that there are some things that he will just never share with you. Why? It could be because he doesn’t want you to get big-headed, he doesn’t want you to think he’s a sure thing; Maybe there are some things about him that he simply doesn’t want you to know or maybe he just doesn’t know how to tell you. Whatever the case, there are some things that your man will find very difficult and almost impossible to say to you. He might not tell you…

about his first love experience
If you’ve gotten to the stage where you can’t imagine why anyone would want to dump this great man you’ve found, then take it from me: you’ll probably never find out the real reason why his first love said goodbye. It’s reasonable to assume that, as a very young man, he simply came on too heavy or needy with his first girlfriend and she wasn’t into him enough to reciprocate his feelings. That is the case for most men. Let him off and let it go. It’s hard to admit that you weren’t wanted even if it is a long time ago.

how he loves when other men look at you
He might wonder from time to time if there are other guys looking at you and if you are really being faithful to him. Just like any man, he is possibly a little possessive maybe even jealous. However, when you both are out together and another guy looks at you appreciatively… you might not even notice but he will be delighted because you are going home with him.

just how many women he’s been with
You can ask your man this question in many ways and as often as you like but don’t be surprised if you get a different answer every time. He assumes that he will lose in whatever he says and he does not want to lose you. If the number he gives is say 30, you may think he sleeps with every woman he meets and so you are just one of many rather than the special woman he says you are. If he tells you that he has slept with just a few women, you may think that he has no experience and won’t have a clue what to do or you may think that he is telling lies so just expect him to avoid the subject every time.

what he tells his friends about you.
Whatever things that he will share about you depends on his own level of confidence. He will probably want to tell the whole world that he has found a wonderful woman and he will want to tell everyone that she is great to look at, sweet, confident and great in bed. Still, he may worry about advertising your qualities in case someone creeps up and steals you away from him. Maybe it’s best if you just meet his friends for yourself.

about his craziest fantasy
Many men won’t even admit to having fantasies, so hearing about his dirtiest fantasy is probably a long shot and a wish that just might not come true. It could be that his fantasy involves some truly crazy things and he’s not quite sure how you would take it. So, if you are still prepared to press for an answer, try sharing your own fantasies first but in this case, be careful what you wish for!

that he loves the sound of your voice

If he is in that sort of mood, just the sound of your voice could make him feel lustful. It’s the gentle way you ask him how he’s feeling today, or the way your voice gets higher when you find something particularly funny. Then, there are sounds you make when you make love and call his name as things get very hot.
what he really thinks about your body
You might want to hear it and he might not want to tell you bit he loves the little things about you. The way you move, your legs, your hair, your lips and your smile. If he loves you then, he loves it all. If you are lucky, he might compliment you sometimes, or he may just show it in the way he kisses you or the way he can’t keep his hands off you. Compliments are great, but we all know that actions speak louder than words!

No matter how wonderful the communication is in your relationship, there are some things that a guy will never share and it’s okay. It doesn’t mean that he’s not a great guy, he’s just a guy. You have to learn to accept it. It doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t trust him. After all, there are some things that you keep to yourself too (If not, sorry.)