When Your Boyfriend Has Wandering Eyes

Guys stare at girls discreetly all the time just as girls take sneaky glances at cute guys. But when a guy keep looking at girls even when his own girl is with him, then that definitely makes him the guy with the wandering eye. There are few things that are more annoying than watching your man being so engrossed while watching other ladies when you’re sitting right there with him. The worst part is the fact that he won’t ever agree to it or accept that he’s doing it.

One thing you need to remember about your boyfriend’s wandering eye is that the more you put up with it, the more he’ll take you for granted and continue to stare shamelessly at other girls.
What is the reason behind this? You have to accept the fact that your boyfriend’s eyes wander because he doesn’t respect you or because it’s just in his nature. If your man truly respects you and values you, he’d avoid ogling other women when you’re around because he’d care about your feelings and he’d be scared to lose you.
Having a boyfriends or a husband with wandering eyes who gets distracted each time a pretty girl walks by will kill your ego and your own self esteem. It’s the fastest way to make a woman feel ugly and helpless thinking that she’s not good enough but you need to remember that a man with a wandering eye will ogle at other women constantly even if he’s dating the most physically attractive woman on earth. There’s just something wrong with him. It’s all him because he could leave if he’s not satisfied with you rather than keeping you on the side while still feeding his eyes.
The best time to catch a man’s wandering eyes is at the beginning of a relationship when you both haven’t gotten too deep into each other so you could decide if you could handle living like that.
Having said all that, we’ll now look at the ways to deal with it when you find yourself in it:
The first time you point this out to him, don’t force him to admit it (because he might never do so). Sit down with him and explain exactly how you feel when he does it. Don’t be upset but be firm and point out how he needs to behave when he’s around you if he wants the relationship to work out. Sometimes, just talking about it can help a guy become a better boyfriend.
Turn the tables on him
If you can’t make him change for the better, then you might want to give him something just as good meaning you would ogle at other men when he’s around all the while making it look like it comes natural to you. Make it seem genuine if you really want him to understand how you feel when he stares at other women. If you want to make it appear more real, talk about the cute, hot and attractive guys with your girlfriends when your boyfriend is right there with you. Sometimes, getting a taste of his own medicine may be the best way out in a situation like this.
Give him (a few) chances if you love him and if you don’t want to lose him.
Don’t be too harsh on him if you catch him sneaking a glance at other girls occasionally. But you might want to kick him, pinch him or do something slightly more painful if he gets back to shamefully staring at girls. Unfortunately though, talking to him, giving him the silent treatment or doing something hurtful t him may not always work. Infact, it may only make him stare at other women with eagerness

Sometimes, you might just have to stare at people together with him
Sometimes, the reason for his incessant leering might be the fact that he’s dating you exclusively and feeling like he’s too restricted in the relationship because he can’t stare at other girls. Therefore, you could deal with this by encouraging him to casually watch people (his time, both guys and girls) with you. While hanging out, you can point out different people walking and gossip about them in fun. When there are no restrictions on staring at other girls (since you can do it with him), it won’t be such a big deal for him anymore.
Sometimes though, it’s too late and he’s too far gone that he won’t be able to change. If you’re in this situation, it’s probably too late to do anything about it. When you reach this crossroad, you need to decide what matters more to you – your own happiness or your boyfriend who’s damaging your life with his actions. You can’t change someone who doesn’t want to change for you! If he thinks you’re not reason enough for him to change this behavior, then, there’s that nothing you can do but leave him. You can only give a person so many chances!


Source :information